A Reel Life film section
Issue: Spring 2002
My Big Fat Greek Wedding movie review
Toula Portokalos (Nia Vardalos) is the iconic ugly duckling: glasses, lank hair, hunched shoulders, drab clothes, submissive disposition. She is the hostess in her family's Greek restaurant and serves coffee amidst the chaos of a large extended family, half of whom seem to be called Nick.
But Toula is about to break out. She, with the help of her mother, persuades her father to allow her to do a computer course.
The man is the head of the house, but the woman is the neck.
This is the pattern throughout the film. The father is the domestic tyrant whose every decree is law. The women have to spend their lives working around him, every idea must be fed to him so that he thinks that it's his own. He spends the rest of his life in extended explanations of how every word in any language has a Greek root. It's supposed to be sweet and endearing. I found it arrogant, ignorant and obnoxious.
Toula uses her newfound skills and a few lies to emerge into a swan. She curls her hair, gets contacts and with help gets a job in another family enterprise -- the travel agency. Now she gets to meet (again) Ian Miller (John Corbett), and to discover the joys of forbidden love. When he asks her to marry him, the culture clashes increase dramatically. His family, her family. He must be baptised to be married in a Greek church.
It's all done in good humour, and the film-makers obviously have a fondness for the idiosyncratic Greek American lifestyle, but I'll never use Windex again.
A love story with lamb on a spit.
by Ali Kayn | |
Just the facts:Title: My Big Fat Greek Wedding (2002) The Players: Nia Vardalos, Michael Constantine, John Corbett, Jayne Eastwood, Official website: IMDb entry For session times of current films, use the cinema listings on the Movie links page. For scheduled release dates, see the coming attractions section. For more information about this movie, check out the internet movie database. |